- Share Your Own Feelings
Be honest and open about how you see the current situation evolving and about your own capabilities and needs, especially in terms of your ability to provide care.
- Emphasize Your Role as an Advocate
Let your loved ones know that you want to make sure to carry out their wishes as much as possible, and that they can depend on you to act in their best interest. Make it clear that you are not trying to bulldoze your way into their lives and reorganize familiar routines or make all the decisions about their future care.
- Listen to Concerns
Don’t brush off any anxieties your loved ones may expressed. Instead, try making a written list of concerns that will need to be addressed when making plans for care.
- Discuss How Emergencies Should Be Handled
Don’t wait until it’s too late to figure out where key financial records, insurance policies and health information is stored. It’s also a good idea to dicuss the circumstances under which your loved ones would like you to become their Power of Attorney.